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Dating Diaries: That Jackass
That's his new name. That Jackass. I hadn't spoken to him since December 22nd, I believe. He always managed to call when I was at work, doing something important, or when something good was on t.v. I knew I didn't really like him as much as I should. He was super enthusiastic about me and I was more like, "eh," about the whole situation. Just the thought of a certain someone that I've had a crush on since high school potentially showing up at my party had me more excited and that gave me my answer. I didn't call him or text him during Christmas and I went to a New Year's party alone and kissed a bottle of champagne rather than be with him. He's left messages and I didn't know how to respond, partially because I didn't want to talk to him and partially because I knew that, if I did respond, he would jump on the "I want to sleep with Slayer" bandwagon again.
He called and I did something cowardly, but what I learned from dating Richard. If you're going to break up with someone and they're potentially mentally unstable, don't do it in person or over the phone. In person, they can cry, plead, hit you, or try to kill themselves or you. If you do it over the phone, you feel like a dick for hanging up on them when they start crying or you lose control and start yelling back at them when they get verbally abusive and start crying. I can't deal with men crying. What did I do? I ended things via text.
Normally, I wouldn't do it. Marlena got broken up with via text and she was devastated. I did it over text because he's overly emotional and I couldn't deal with that. I sent him an honest text and told him he was too aggressive for me and it wasn't going to work out. Then he texts me back and tells me that he's been calling to tell me he found someone else on New Years. Uh...did you forget that you've been leaving me messages and texts about how much you miss me and can't wait to see me? Whatevs. I don't even care, but, because I'm a bitch and I have to get the last word in, I told him that it all worked out for the best and I'm glad he found someone to practice free love with. Then I told him I'd met someone else and I'd love for him to meet her because she is awesome. Why am I bitch? He confided in me that his last three girlfriends left him for another chick and now he thinks I have, too.
It was evil and petty, but he told me this story before about how, whenever he likes a girl and her friend tries to cock block, he will deliberately hurt the cock blocker's feelings and make her feel like shit. He will say, "Are you mad because your friend looks better than you?" or "Are you mad because your friend isn't fat like you?" or some put down that will make her cry. When he told me that the last night we hung out, casually in conversation like he was discussing the weather, I knew he was a dick and I'd never be able to date a someone like that. I wanted him to see what it felt like to be emotionally kicked in the nuts. Plus, I feel like I have carpal tunnel in my dominant hand and it's all his fault. You're not stupid. You know why.
Thank the Lord in Heaven I didn't sleep with that jackass.
State of the Union: Not amused, not annoyed
Listening to: Whatever You Like by Anya Marina |
Posted: 12:12 AM, Wed 6 Jan 2010 in Dating Diaries |
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Yeah, he sounds like a loser. Dang, we need to hook you up with Mr Right, where the hell is he? Hopefully right around the corner..:)
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Posted by LauriesAsylum at 2:39 PM, Sat 9 Jan 2010 |
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I'm glad you dumped him. You deserve so much better!.......I told hubby about you telling jackass you found a girlfreind.....in typical guy style he asked if you had any photos!.....men!
Hang in there....your prince charming has to be out there some where. He just hasn't met you yet. As sonn as he does he won't be able to stop from falling in love with you! |
Posted by littleMissConfused at 7:18 PM, Thu 14 Jan 2010 |
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| I keep getting Prince Charming's psycho cousin. |
Posted by slayerbarbie at 7:27 PM, Wed 20 Jan 2010 |
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